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I Made the Decision to Let Go, But that doesn’t make it Any Easier

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“A woman is unstoppable after she realises she deserves better”      – Word Porn

My personal adventure of struggles and strengths which ultimately resulted in self-awareness and the development of self-worth is a complex story, full of every emotion you could possibly imagine, leading me to the realisation of self-respect.  The five stages involved in this valuable life lesson have been detailed below.

  1. Infatuation

From that very first time we met, it was clear I was more attracted to him.  Everything about him was practically perfect!  I had visualised us settling down together, dreaming of our long and happy future and basically letting my imagination run wild.  On reflection, I now can see these feelings weren’t reciprocated.   Too caught up in my emotions, I chose to ignore any red flags that were visible.  Looking back I feel like such an idiot, yet I still can’t help but miss him, love him and ache inside as I long for him.

Love at first sight?

Despite being in two serious, long-term relationships where I had considered myself to be in love, the feelings I experienced with him were of a completely different level.  I began to doubt if I had every truly been in love with a man until now.  I told him we fitted together like a little jigsaw piece!  Despite him saying I wasn’t his ‘type’, I often told him he was perfect for me – and I meant it.

  1. Love and Denial

Many times I wonder why my love for this man resulted in me excusing his comments aimed at my weight amongst other things.  I desperately tried to convince myself that perhaps he had low self-esteem as I did and was criticising me to help himself feel better.  I openly explained how his comments made me feel, giving him an insight into my battle with anorexia, hoping he would protect me from further remarks.  He cried and apologised which surely proved he loved me too, I convinced myself.

People will only treat you how you allow them to!

As time passed, I eventually began to listen to my instincts that were screaming this was wrong.  I discovered he had been cheating on me and everything fell into place – he was never interested in me.  I felt like such a fool as the realisation set in.  If he had missed me like I missed him, he would contact me, he would want to see me, and he would respond when I called.  Blinded by love, I made excuses for his lack of contact.  This was the first time I had truly felt rejected and I didn’t want to accept this harsh reality.

He’s just not that into me!

  1. Betrayal

As I bravely approached the topic of the cheating I was literally left speechless at his lack of ability to accept he was wrong.  Instead, he insisted I was to blame for not just ignoring it.  This was the final straw.  No matter how ugly I felt, despite my anorexia and self-hatred, regardless of my sheer disgust at everything about myself I felt strong enough to know that I did not deserve to be treated this way.

Reaching a stage where you can walk away from people who don’t respect you!

I still can’t believe it but I eventually walked away.  I scraped together enough self-respect to believe I deserved better, even with my extremely low opinion of myself.  My heart was shattered into a million pieces at the thought of losing him, even though I knew deep down I never really had him.

I didn’t want to leave him, in fact I genuinely loved him more than he could ever imagine.  But I knew this was the right decision although probably the most difficult.  I felt proud of myself for doing what I knew I had to.

  1. Tears and Mixed Emotions

For endless weeks I sat alone with tears streaming down my cheeks, feeling a whole mixture of emotions.  There was part of me that felt strong, enjoying my new found self-respect.  Feelings of regret and embarrassment were also present, along with deep feelings of hurt, my heart physically aching.  I missed this man so much and I had to use every last part of strength and willpower within me to ensure I didn’t run back to him.  Even until this very day I still find it impossible to forget him, knowing I can’t be with him, but struggling to be without.

Sometimes you have to reach absolute ‘rock bottom’ before you can pick yourself back up!

Having no friends or anyone to confide in has made this whole business of ‘letting go’ even more of a challenge.  The anorexia ensured I had isolated myself, pushing everyone away.  My new best friend became ‘Google’ as I frantically searched for answers that I will never truly have.  I have learned from my internet searches that I have done the right thing and that through time things will become easier.  Apparently there will come a point when I don’t have him on my mind every second of every day and when I don’t feel an eerie emptiness inside my heart.

You would struggle to handle me now, even if instructions were provided!

  1. Finding Positive in Every Negative

She needed a hero, so that’s what she became!

Thanks to my scarily intimate online resources, I have managed to realise that I am not a fool but instead a woman with a big heart.  I have learned to let go of my anger as the only person this negatively impacts is myself.  I am praising myself for being so strong and showing my self-worth, mentally replaying the moment I told him I deserved much better.

Never settle for less than you deserve!  Having self-respect is the most beautiful quality a woman can possess.

Rather than dwell on this heart-breaking, one-sided love which I fully invested in, I am determined to make something positive come of this situation.  Yes before you ask, I did get this idea from my new friend ‘Google’!  I am able to learn and identify where I would make changes if ever in a similar situation.  I am now aware of loves dominating ability to overlook warning signs and I’m clearer about my hopes and desires managing to overpower my willingness and ability to face reality.  These are valuable lessons I will keep with me for the rest of my life.  I feel stronger and will never again accept someone behaving towards me in this way.  From the bottom of my heart, no matter how difficult it gets or how lonely I feel, I can confidently state I would rather be on my own than with someone who doesn’t deserve me.

Once you become aware of your self-worth and value letting go will be the easiest, difficult thing you do.

I hope that after reading my struggles, both past and present, you become aware of the importance of having your own self-worth.  Everything I gained from my endless, lonely online searches has been valuable and will continue to provide guidance throughout my life.  Please never settle for less than you deserve and don’t feel pity for me, this is an essential experience that will be beneficial to me in many ways during my future journeys.

My online search uncovered the exciting Cinemabox  which I really enjoyed and would highly recommend.

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How to root your android phone easily – Android rooting software list

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When you think about rooting your device, you worry about the complications of the process. Definitely, getting root access to a system should be something difficult. However, this is not the case with Android devices. Many developers have worked on apps that can root your devices. You will find many of these useful apps in android rooting software list here.

The best thing about these little apps in the android rooting software list is that they install on your phone and root it without ever asking you to use a PC. So you can root your phone using these tiny apps without ever getting closer to a PC.

In this article, you will see the best android rooting software list. These programs don’t work on every phone out there but they root majority of top-line phone models. If a program from the list doesn’t work for your phone, try another. One of them will eventually work for your phone model.

Android Rooting Software List – Rooting android without a PC

Before you go ahead and read about different rooting software apps, it is important to note that these apps will require an unlocked bootloader in most cases. You will also need to make sure that you are connected to the internet to use most of these apps as they will fetch rooting files for your device from the internet after identifying the device.

NOTE: You don’t need a PC to use these rooting apps.

Wondershare Mobile Go

Wondershare Mobile Go is probably one of the best apps in this android rooting software list. It has a graphical user interface which makes it easy to follow instructions. It can easily root 3000+ android devices. The app has a backup and restore feature that can come very handy when rooting a device. The only downside of this app is that it’s not free. It’s a premium app.

To root your phone using Wondershare Mobile Go app, you will first need to download the app. Once downloaded, install it on your phone and follow on-screen instructions. It will take just a few minutes to root a phone using this app.

Root Genius

Root Genuis is a Chinese rooting app. It can handle a lot of android devices. The process to root is easy as it only requires you to follow a few simple onscreen instructions. The only downside of this app is that it doesn’t include functionality to reverse the rooting process i.e. un-rooting. Once you root your phone using this app, it stays rooted unless you flash another ROM.

iRoot

iRoot is similar to Root Genuis in more than one ways. It supports as many phone models as many does Root Genius. It’s easy to install and it’s free. However, it doesn’t have an un-rooting feature just like Root Genius.

If you want to root your phone, don’t hesitate to try one of the apps from android rooting software list. All of these apps run on your phone without requiring a PC.

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Building a reputable brand using Instagram

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Looking to build the ultimate visual identity for your business? Have you considered using Instagram? Instagram is fast becoming a necessity for numerous businesses since it allows them to sell their brand in picture form. More to that, Instagram allows you to integrate other social networks thus you continue interacting with your friends from other social platforms. Instagram is not only ideal for interaction but also for business purposes.

Using Instagram for business

Instagram is all about pictures, short videos and captioning the images using short and precise messages similar to WhatsApp status. However, building a reputable presence on Instagram will require you to sell your business in a unique way. Here is how to use Instagram to build a reputable brand.

  • Set up the business account

First things first, you will need to create an account that is solely dedicated to your business. Most business owners make a mistake of selling their brand using their personal accounts. This is disastrous for your venture since it is a clear indicator of non-commitment to your business.

  • Have a consistent name and photo

Clients should be able to relate with your business whenever they see your business account. Ensure the name and photo are not only consistent but also unique. In addition, be sure to include a link to your site so that you can attract more traffic to your website.

  • Include a fascinating bio

You need to give clients a reason to view your product. The surest way to ensure clients click and like the images is by including a captivating bio. The bio should be brief just like a WhatsApp status and it should speak volumes about your business.

  • Create popular posts

The images you post will determine how many visitors will visit your page. Therefore, you should consider creating posts that cover what other users want to hear and see. Furthermore, the images should be of high quality to ensure the user can get the message clearly. Also do not forget to creatively caption those images. You could borrow an idea on captioning from your WhatsApp status.

  • Use the editing tools

Instagram offers unmatched editing tools that enhance the quality of your images thus enabling you to stand out. Ensure you use the appropriate editing tool that will perfectly suit your image.

Conclusion

Instagram is definitely a unique platform that enables you to send your message in a unique way. As a result, you should capitalize on the uniqueness of this photo sharing app to build an empire. Remember, a picture is worth a thousand word and thus you should use this attribute to build a strong brand.

Source: whatsapp status

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PlayBox HD for alternative devices

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If you keep hearing about PlayBox HD and how people are getting it for their iPhones and Androids, their MACs and laptops and you are feeling left out, all is not lost. Just because you do not have one of those devices does not mean that you cannot gain access to the hottest application around.

If you have a BlackBerry, a Fire Phone, a Fire Stick or the Fire TV then you are in luck, because you can download the PlayBox HD application for all of these devices. There is even a happy bonus here, these are the easiest download processes to go through- it is completely simple and totally straightforward and will have you streaming movies and TV shows in no time.

I’ll give you a quick breakdown of just how easy it is. For your BlackBerry device all you need to do is go into Install Programs, which you will find in your App Manager under settings and just simply switch the “Allow Apps from Other Sources to be Installed” to on. Then download the PlayBox file. That is it!

The Kindle Fire follows the same basic process which requires you to enable the option of installation of applications through your settings and in devices. Then you simply need to install the PlayBox file and you are done. For the Fire Phone it is again the same process but in your settings you will find it under Applications & Parental Controls and it is the “Allow non-Amazon app installation” that you need to enable. Once you have done that you just need to download and install PlayBox.

Of all of these installations you will find the Fire TV is the most complicated, yet still easy as can be. In your settings you will find system and then Developer Options once in there you will see ADB Debugging- you need to enable that. Then download ADBFire as well as FireBox to your computer. Run ADBFire and type in the IP address of your Fire TV (you can find that in settings > system > about > network) and then install the FireBox file. You will then receive a pop up that tells you that you need to update the app, just hit Cancel.  You are now free to scroll through a bounty of movies and television shows to choose from!

Remember, while this might seem like a pain in the backside but this process does not actually take very long, it is fairly straightforward and considering the application is entirely free it is definitely worth the hassle. I think you will agree once you have had the chance to enjoy free movies and TV shows at your fingertips.